By Rachel Shatto Aug. Trust me, I've been through my fair share and then some. The quickest I've ever bounced back from the end of a relationship was minutes. And the longest, well, that one took years to get over, which really sucked.
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While we broke up after dating for eight months, we kept seeing each other on and off for about two more years. It takes time to unravel your relationship emotions once you have decided to end it.
I still do. Don't beat yourself up for not moving on faster. Although I think it took so long because our relationship dragged out for quite some time.
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And, in the end, he never wanted to get married. Although I've had a few Lver here and there since that time, I have to say that, almost nine months later, I'm still not completely over him. Also realize even if you never fully get over someone it will, in time, at least get easier. Here's what she said. Until, finally you are happy in the relationship you are in and can finally move on and forget about that lying and cheating ex who wasted five years of your life.
In my thirties, I put up with a whole lot less BS and know what I deserve in a relationship. It will get better. The breakup, initiated by me, rocked me to the core. I was so attached to him, [but] our entire relationship was unhealthy.
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That one was tough to recover from, but even then, I eventually did. My brain was healthy and we made a mutual decision to part ways. But no matter how long it takes, it's important to remember to ovr kind to yourself. The one that took years to get over, and the friendship that imploded after two decades? Trust me, I've been through my fair share and then some. I'm 37 now. Took probably two years to completely get over the relationship.
The quickest I've ever bounced back from the end of a relationship was minutes. He cheated on me and that was that. What I learned in the process was that, because no two relationships are alike, it follows that their demises would also be unique.
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So, if my relationship was three years that was a magical for methen I wouldn't date anyone seriously for about 1. Now I feel like myself.
I felt sad oover lose the closeness with him, but so right in our decision. I held off on dating other people for three months to give myself space and show him respect. At some point of every day, he was on my mind.
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Does he still think about me? But it's easy to be philosophical about why it takes a long time to get over a breakup when you aren't in the midst of the heartbreak. It took me about five years to feel nothing toward him.
And now, I have a better partner than I ever could have hoped for, and a best friend whom I am closer to than I ever thought possible. I felt obsessive but it was something I had to get through on my own. hij
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I hope he has found the same sense of peace I have. After eight months of dating and eight months of breakup, we got back together. I was deeply depressed for a year.
I cried for three months, every day, almost all day. I think about him way more than I'd like to admit. But him cheating showed me his true colors and I wanted nothing to do with him.
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That and life experience. I was 32 when I called it quits. The first year was all the oover, rediscovering self, the missing the sex, etc.
When we broke up the second and final time, it was a whole different story. By Rachel Shatto Aug. I can look back on our relationship as a learning experience and no longer feel bad about it.