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This year marks the 50th anniversary of Loving v. Virginia, the U. Supreme Court Louisville MS adult swingers that overturned state laws banning interracial marriage. Over five decades, interracial relationships have become more common across the United States, but those couples still face some unique challenges.

The ature cocktail at my wedding was a white chocolate martini. We chose it because it was easy to make — and tasty. Just some liquor and some half and half.

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We thought the drink would be the perfect touch. How cheesy!

We could have chosen it as an intentional symbol of unity, a blending of families, or a self-effacing joke. But the thought had quite frankly never occurred to us.

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It was simply our favorite drink, and we felt a little embarrassed by the unintended joke. This funny, if a little awkward, moment Housewives looking real sex Goudeau Louisiana 71333 certainly not the first time in our lives that race had given an action a meaning different from its original intent. Race is always present in an interracial marriage, even in the moments you forget to look for it.

It pops up when life is otherwise perfectly ordinary. Yet, racism continues to punctuate our daily lives.

And there are particular ways that, as a white person in an interracial couple, one gets an inside peek at the subtle and overt ways non-white people live with racism all the time. Those are the obvious moments.

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Take, for example, a few years ago, when my husband and I applied to rent a condo. Our landlord advised us not to rent from her. Or like the doctor who asked me to schedule a visit on Martin Luther King, Jr. Standing in her office, holding one hand on my pregnant belly, I cancelled the appointment and did not return.

If racism were limited to hurling epithets, Horny women in Great Bend, PA might seem easier to combat — like explaining that the white martini is not, in fact, vanilla.

Yet, under the guise of the ordinary, racism thrives.

The unanticipated ways Adult wants nsa Tribbey racism plays a role in my life reminds me constantly of the work yet to be done. Ultimately, though, my story is one of love — of falling madly in love with a kind and intelligent man for whom I am thankful every day.

And we both believe strongly that love does triumph. Being in an interracial marriage 50 years after Loving v.

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Virginia is both ordinary and not. Because of those who actively challenge these expectations, my husband and I have seen the potent flavor of love overpower racism. To those who perceive me as a white woman Beautiful women seeking sex Fort Morgan expect me to live in a near homogeneously white world, my interracial family is a surprise.

I find that this reaction can often challenge people to alter their expectations and decrease their bias, which, on my most optimistic days, I hope will lead to a brighter future — one to which we can all raise a glass.

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Lesley Curtis, Ph. She lives in Philadelphia with her husband and daughter. Thoughtful essays, commentaries, and opinions on current events, ideas, and life in the Philadelphia region.

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