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And hopefully, I will run counterpoint to the things her mom says and does which could be destructive. Remembering the other parent has a role to play takes away the stress of thinking I have to play every role and would fail at every role. There is a separation of property.
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Actually, they just make you a little nutty and you feel like your problems vanish away. Only then you discover the next morning all of your problems are still there with a few more problems besides all of that. It gets to be scary. And you feel overwhelmed.
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Exercise releases positive endorphins. You will feel good about yourself and that all of the problems you have are manageable.
I think this feeling that they are manageable instead of gone makes a big difference here. I am not anti-alcohol. I am just not for using alcohol as a cure-all for your feelings of being overwhelmed or feelings of depression. So get your butt in gear and get off to the gym. You will feel better about yourself and your circumstances. And I am all for a natural cure as opposed to a drug. You need to find things positive in your life from which to draw energy.
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