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If you're curious about anal sex, you're far from alone. It may seem taboo, but behind closed doors, it turns out that more than 1 in 3 Housewives wants sex tonight Brigantine ages 19 to 44 have tried anal sex at least once, according to a survey published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine. That said, it's probably not a regular Saturday night thing. But a few things are clear: Before you try it, it's worth taking time to discuss what to know, what to avoid, and how to prepare for anal sex to make the experience amazing. Here, sex experts share what you need to know if you're interested in trying it out. Skip experimenting if you have hemorrhoids or are having digestive issues, and use plenty of lube.
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At first, I winced in pain feeling myself stretch. It felt like my skin was being peeled back and torn off. But quickly this feeling subsided and I felt a bit more comfortable taking the first half-inch of him.
Bent over on the edge of a couch and my knees were on the carpet and I braced myself and prepared for what came next.
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Taking my hand and placing it on his hip I pushed backward to start to guide his entry. I put my hand right on the hip bone to give myself a good leverage in case I needed to push him outward.
If things went really wrong, I could always just tell him to stop and we could have regular sex, I figured. Fortunately for me, nothing of the destructive sort took place. Then Wife swap minneapolis liberal bent my elbow and retracted my hand toward my own back so he could ease in and suddenly the pain was replaced with immense pressure.
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My belly felt so full. The air escaped my lungs as I exhaled heavily. It was the oddest feeling as I felt myself stretch out to accommodate him. I was confused.
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Pro-tip for all those out there looking for ideas on how to make it more comfortable, you want to be in control of the depth and speed yourself. We kept this up for a few minutes and then I just opted to help him reach orgasm with my mouth instead.
Anal sex is an extremely tight fit no matter what. None of the other women I know have reported having a great time their first time. The same is usually true of vaginal sex for most women. But the second time was so much easier. For lube, the guy just used saliva which was surprisingly sufficient.
I was more turned on, more excited, and with a much more experienced partner. Coincidentally, we ended up on a similar couch, this time with a hardwood floor his poor knees!
I think it was his experience and self-control that made it great. He slipped Beautiful mature want nsa Lowell Massachusetts me and it was a breeze compared to the first time. I should also note, the first guy had a lot of girth and this guy was more of an average size. I was extremely turned on.
I felt hot. I felt really hot. I felt like I was doing something naughty, using my body in a different way that was pleasurable and off-limits. It was so new and different.
It was extremely intimate, so I liked that part. I rubbed myself and tried to get off, but that was a no go.
Sometimes when I drink, the alcohol makes it extremely hard for me to achieve orgasm. He kept going and made sure to take care of me asking me how I was.
He was so sweet. I just heard him exhale. I felt proud! But this time I felt nothing. Not with anal sex.
The only cues I had were audible. He left and I went to bed. Later that night I masturbated to the idea of it. The thought kept replaying in my head over and over again. It was really a hot experience and he was Naughty wives wants casual sex Calgary Alberta an amazing person. All of it just turned me on and I got myself off a few times, rolled over, and went to sleep.
From here on out, it got a little easier with each time until it was an enjoyable experience and I was literally asking for it because it would give me a different kind of orgasm.
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I know all bodies are built differently and this might make anal sex more pleasurable for some than others, but I also think a lot of people are scared off by this first uncomfortable experience, especially if they had an inexperienced partner. Sometimes it gets easier really Horny women in Selby, UK, too. It should be a personal choice. In my experience, it got a whole lot better with time and became an amazing thing that I enjoy as a part of my routine sex life.
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