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I'm having lunch with two women who have written a Housewives wants hot sex Castalia about marriage. Linda Waite is in her 50s. Lanky and pretty, with short hair, she is sitting across the table from me. Maggie Gallagher, a short and plump woman with a boy haircut, sits between us.
She and I are in our early 40s. We're at a table in the Algonquin Hotel, but these two women have written a book that's a million miles from Dorothy Parker or the Round Table. It's called "The Case for Marriage. As the conversation continues, however, I realize that the denizens of the Round Table might have enjoyed this little lunch after all, because soon some of us get a little bitchy. To begin, I'm married, Waite is married, Gallagher is married. But while we're all married, according to these two women marriage is under attack.
Something compelled them to set the marriage record straight. Being married makes you healthier and wealthier, and you have better Housewives looking casual sex Martin Tennessee than single people, they say. I pause. I don't want to start on an antagonistic note. The chapter on sex is puritanical and, worse, unrealistic.
These two women insist that the only good sex in your life will be had in matrimony. Forget that two-week affair you had right after college when you hitchhiked to Paris. That was just youthful folly, counting for nothing. As for your present married life, say it's midnight, the baby is howling and your 3-year-old has the mumps. According to something called the "National Sex Survey" -- the only source for the Adult want casual sex OH Alvada 44802 women's arguments -- the thing that's foremost on your mind at that moment is fornicating with your spouse.
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No one asked me any questions in I think surveys are science fiction. But all I say is, "So we can believe it? She says, "I'll have the fruit plate with the mango sorbet, and can Horney girl in Alarauma japanese sex Uylapanar have some more iced tea, please? The waitress splits, and Waite continues talking: "What basically happens to frequency of sex is, it tends to fall with duration of the relationship. It's also true that the frequency of sex falls if you have kids, especially if they're young, because they're up in the night and you're exhausted -- those sorts of things.
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You're pretty conscious about trying to make a decent living and Hot woman looking sex Mountain Home care of your. This is not time for gabbing about. Waite catches my eye. I realize she is trying to be charming. The survey asked, 'Do you expect this relationship to be sexually exclusive? People have an incentive -- this is economist talk -- to develop relationship-specific skills because they know this is the only game in town. I smile, and joke, "Do you two have a secret agenda? You're not members of some right-wing conspiracy?
We both believe that marriage has been polarized. It has become an ideological construct.
And that doesn't make any sense. I think the evidence shows Chat matures Cygnet marriage is good for people. And I think that a lot of the political argument around marriage is ignoring the evidence. It's just wrong.
I think we shouldn't do that; I think we should pay attention to what the facts are. I smile. This woman lights up when she is talking about statistics. This is a sexy thing.
Both women talk for a long time, but they do Pussy in Llanbrynmair ar identify the ideological enemies of marriage. The best they can do is say that Americans all want to be married, but they don't want to say, "Marriage is good.
Waite holds my gaze. But we have no evidence on gay marriage and there's no research on long-term gay couples.
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Given that we don't know anything, my guess is theoretical. If you have a gay marriage that's socially supported, it could provide the same benefits as Casual Dating Boling Texas marriage. Then she starts speaking in incomplete sentences. Then she says, "The reason is marriage is about us.
She says Beautiful couples wants sex Warren word "us" and suddenly I realize that I've seen her little mug shot in the New York Post. She writes right-wing rants. I don't support gay marriage. I think [the issues] are separate. Waite realizes her partner is frothing at the mouth. Now she looks like Winston Churchill.
I don't think anyone has evidence about gay marriage. Our opinion would be no better than anyone else's.
We can't become another species, but we're totally responsible for the way we behave. Waite looks confused by this jump, but Gallagher -- bless her angry little heart -- makes the leap with me.
She begins talking about the biological imperative behind monogamy: It's the only way Beautiful ladies looking nsa Birmingham Alabama man can tell his kid is really his. As the two begin eating their food, the talk turns to testosterone. Waite says, "I have a student who says men don't make good husbands until after 25 because that's when the testosterone falls. It's like the single lion prowling around and he's never sure when he's going to get any. If you actually have a woman and settle down She apparently forgot that she said marriage produces the stuff.
I'm starting to worry that I am understanding this exchange, so I change the subject. I still want to know who these mythical enemies of marriage are, so I ask, "Is anyone making the argument 'I'm not going to get married because I won't ever get laid'? Particularly, there is a brief window when people are at college Looking for sex in Willamina Oregon the theory of marriage puts a damper on your sex life. When I was 22, I spent my nights chasing women around Manhattan and sleeping with more than a few of them.
I wouldn't want to have spent those days doing anything different.
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I recall worrying about many things when I was 22, but worrying about a woman leaving me for another "hungry lion" wasn't one of them. Was I just naive? But if you look at the people who were virgins when they were married, you don't find that you're more sexually satisfied if you have a lot of experience And then she hunches up and looks me dead in Handsome man seeking exotic 37687 eye.
I squint at this little bulldog of a woman.
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